Don’t you dare give up

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Are you struggling to find a reason and purpose for you in life?

Do you think you’ve got nothing to look forward to and that your best days are behind you?

Can you not find happiness in life and have no plans?

Well I’m here today to tell you that victory in life isn’t just for one person, isn’t just for some people, victory is for everyone! Victory is for you! Today might not be a great day and tomorrow might be rubbish as well, but some day there will be a good day, a day of victory for you.

Victory

Victory can be different things to different people; to me one of the most important victories is finding a reason to smile. There are millions of reasons to smile in this world but sometimes it is all too easy to forget them all, the key is getting yourself in to that position where you feel able to and want to smile again.

Nobody or nothing should stop you from feeling like you have the right to victory, to success, to happiness. Never let yourself get in to that position where you don’t think it is right to be happy or that you are allowed to be happy.

Something for everyone

There is something out there for everyone, if you just look out for opportunities. The key is finding something you like doing and going and doing it. Just ask yourself – when do you feel the best and what do you do that makes you feel the best? There are things out there that can make you happy, there are things out there that you can have success doing, you just got to be prepared to look.

Today might just be about getting to the end of the day and that is fine, as sometimes just getting through today is a victory in itself but it is only a victory if one day you do something to go and get your victory. That day might not be for years and there maybe a long period of just getting through, but as long as you keep getting through you have a chance of victory.

You are precious

You are precious and your time on earth is precious. You have something to offer this world and you have been put here for a reason. Never forget the past but don’t let the past stop you from doing something with your future because if you are 1 or 90 you still have a future. You still have incredible potential that the world would love to see used.

So let me end by talking directly to you reader, you may have had a hard day, a hard year, a hard life but I am telling you, don’t you dare give up, don’t you dare let the world get the best of you, don’t you dare miss out on the good things that are out there for you. Life isn’t easy but some of the best things in life are easy to achieve if you want to achieve them bad enough.

Competition

Those that know me personally will know I am a fan of Arsenal (an English football team in the Premier League). The team has a reputation for not being able to do what is needed to win the big games and beat the big teams. The team plays in a certain way and never change it, no matter who they are playing. This was up until yesterday, as Arsenal went away to play the defending champions, completely changed the way they play and won the game 2 – 0.

This got me thinking about personal development and competition. To succeed in life you need to have belief in yourself and what you are doing but I think that needs to be balanced with finding the right way to succeed, which may not always be the path, you want to take.

In media and performance art you need to know your audience. In business you need to know your competitors and your customers. In life, you need to know who the people are that can help you get where you need to go. Only a select few people and companies succeed without adapting and changing to beat who they are competing with or to win the crowd they want to entertain.

In all areas of life it is wise to know who your competition is, what their strengths are, what their weaknesses are and how you can beat them or be better than them. With that information you can find a way to adapt and compete, which is what you need to do in order to succeed.

If you want long term success you need to be able to adapt, as the more versatile you are the more problems you will be able to solve and the more versatile you are the harder it is for people to compete with you. If you always do things the same way, you will get left behind and found out.

This world moves at a staggering pace and we need to be able to move with it in order to succeed. What might have worked yesterday may not work today. Don’t forget that one victory doesn’t make success, its what you do after that victory that will determine how successful you are going to be in life.